My 20-year-old daughter hates the monogrammed iPod Touch I got her for Christmas!?

She said she wanted one so that she could trade in her iPhone 3g for a Droid and still have the ability to listen to her music, Skype, etc. However, as soon as she opened her present, she stated, "I *hope* this is the iPhone 4!" Since Christmas, I have told her repeatedly to get a refund from Apple and trade in the iPod, but now, she will not even speak to me about it! All I wanted was to make her super happy on Christmas, like she was on her birthday when I gave her a $10 "Psych" iPhone cover and she screamed and jumped up and down for ten minutes! My hubby and I are getting ready to file bankruptcy, so I cannot afford another $300 (with the protection package) gift! What should I do? Just assume she is going to be ungrateful? Sell it on ebay (she does have a common name, thank God!)? Give the iPod to my husband? Or is this HER problem to deal with? I feel so stupid!