Do is sound like we hang with gang members to much?

me n my friends hangs with certain dudes but they are in a gangs.Every since then my family say i like certain colors of clothes black n red n sometymes i freak out when they dnt get those colors and they say,my attitude have changed my grades are dropping,and the teachers are complaining about my grades and my attitude in school,i've been gettin in fights lately at school n i dnt lyke being around my family like that i rather hang wit those certain dudes their like my 2nd family.... Do Yall Think I Hang With These To Much??