My best friend's baby girl is due in 2-4 weeks.....and.....?

This has happened so many times, that's why a lot of people keep the name a secret until the baby is born. It totally sucks, I'm sure if the sister in law was in your friends situation she would freak out too. If I had a name picked out from the beginning I'd stick with it no matter what, who cares. She's being stubborn and holding the power over your friend because she's due earlier is what it seems like..good luck.